Dump heads

Hellow!

Television...TV...small screen...Do you watch more TV??

Believe me it makes you dump to the extent you don't realize the real world around you...you don't realize your kid sitting near you is playing some dangerous game, you don't realize your wife is yelling at you, you don't realize your son is waiting to play with you, finally you are not just dump...you become lonely too. The real world zone of your brain stops and the reel world zone activates. When the brain resumes to the real world zone it is too late. You are filled with

Frustration!

Anger!

Loneliness!

Every year I take a resolution to reduce watching TV but don't follow it. I have fought with my wife so many times justifying it!!

Our kids follow us!

Once I said "...responsible father of two kids..." am i responsible? What happened today...my kid almost spoiled dinner prepared by my wife...and I did not stop her even though I was very near to her...my wife ended up with no food! Yes being a King, prince and princess we all had good food. For just being a queen she did not! Though she was generous I was able to see the frustration in her face!

Above all these King and Queen had a war!!! in Anger

Finally I ended up sitting alone in my office pretending to have some official work.

But because of all these you got another blog from me!!! But still a dump head only!!! It took more than a year for me to write my next blog!

The Identity

Hello! Hope you guys doing well!!

Here is my next blog...finally got some time to write another blog...hold on...hold on...do I really don't have time??! One of my friend used to tell this always "If you be yourself you find lots of time and sometimes might not know how to spend.

Ok lets get to business...In this blog I am going to talk about people who lost their identity.

Talking about losing identity HOME MAKERs are the fist ones comes to my mind! Their dreams never come true. While there are very few home makers who has shined, not everyone shining as a star they always wanted to be. My better half is also a victim unfortunately!

Who's next...

People with principles and etiquette...on one side though they are praised the sad part is they are equally losers...tell you how! I have been a etiquette follower long time and have lost too many things because of that...I am a sweets lover. During my childhood days whenever we visit one of my aunts home she used to give us sweets/snacks and I would politely refuse to take them...just to maintain decency!! She started not asking me at some point in time...so I lost tasting her delicious sweets!

You could argue with me saying "Life is a Drama" and everyone will play different roles! Children never lose their identity, are they not playing a role in the Drama? But now a days we have corrupted them as well. We are forcing them to what we wanted to be!

Some of you could argue it is heredity, genes can be modified.

So don't lose your identity!!! Be a native app (technical touch) !!!

Hope to give you a good blog next time.....

The Moment!

Here is my second attempt to give a very good blog...

In this blog I am going to talk about "The Moment" in our life!

Every one of us will definitely have a moment in our life which passes through our thoughts then and there, which never fades away from our memory, which moment we wanted to experience and feel again and again, day and day! There is one such moment that happened very recently in my life as well...

My phone rings as I was in my bed, deep sleep, with no dependants around and no pressure to wake up early for daily routines. Back in my home town my wife is in all pressure thinking...Why is this guy not picking up the mobile? How is he able to sleep like this? Why in the world only womankind have to go through this? Finally after a couple of tries, I heard the ring and picked up. Still in half sleep I could hear only these words..."Water broke...", "...baby will be delivered today..." Though I did not tell "I am starting now and will be near you shortly!" my strong lady pulled together and said "I am ok! Our baby will be alright! You be careful while travelling!". We never spoke of such a situation before! We have always been visualizing a scene where I will be near her during the labor! I really felt very proud to have such a brave woman as my better half!

With the strength and energy my wife gave me I got ready, conveyed this to my aunt nearby, brake the fast real fast (breakfast), drove my bike to the station thinking about "What's next? Before I could reach the station my father-in-law called me and said "Its a girl!", I got additional responsibility and promoted as a father of two children...can you believe this!! This is the moment I felt like everything is going to be changed in my life. I have to be a very good king of a prince and princess...ah!! why should I worry a lot while my queen is beside me!?

Hasty city life mornings (powered by obligations and driven by adjustments)....

First of all I just want to talk about few lines how I got into writing this blog. Yes this is my first blog. And honestly I have never read a blog till the end or do read through long mails completely (including project emailsJ, yeah still surviving!!). Have been always giving the excuse that don’t have time. Let me take a step back, do I really run out of time? Am I really so busy that I am not even able to spend time to read something so that I could at least tell a bed time story to my kid? Literally I am running out of stories and my kid started telling Appa tells only “MOKKAI” stories. So I decided to write something which could prompt me to read. At least expecting to read my own blogs…

A busy day in chennai...

For the past few years my normal day goes like this…

My day starts with an obligation to myself, buying more time to wake up. As soon as I wake up the first thing I do is check messages in my mobile as if the whole world is waiting for me to respond (WhatsApp, Office Inbox, Personal Inbox, SMS, Yammer etc.,), of course there would be few messages that would make you go crazy. Acting as if I did not read those messages will move on, fresh up myself and energize by drinking a cup of tea/coffee. Now that I have gained some energy I am all set to face the real big challenge of waking my kid, I had to wake him in a comforting manner so that his day will be good (in turn ours) and to do this I had to influence myself to drop the age from thirty plus to single digit. Once he wakes up I had to run behind and help him get ready for school and handover to my wife to take it forward. She make him have breakfast and takes him to the school van. Before she comes back I have to take bath and get myself dressed up. Then with a little bit of free advice from my wife would finally agree to eat the breakfast, put the lunch box in my bag, and leave the house worrying about the long journey to office (about thirty five kilometers one way, that daily reminds me my father telling about his journey in cycle to the school during his childhood but in a very good natural environment), traffic and surprises I might have on the way. My first transit starts with a bike ride to a place where I catch Volvo A/C buss, otherwise end up having more adjustments in the travel. On the way either I scold or adjust at least 10 people for being so selfish on road as if I being so modest on road. After the adventurous bike ride my biggest task to find a very good parking spot where my bike will be safe (at least I am convinced to be safer) and I could easily spot it when I come back in the evening. As I park the bike safely, I will be already late to catch the Volvo A/C bus so I almost run over the railway bridge dripping and gasping like an athlete running a hurdles race. I will be able to take calls from the bus if I get into the Volvo A/C bus otherwise it becomes difficult to take project calls from the bus and I had to get excuse for not attending the call. If there are no calls I watch a lot things happening around me, I have witnessed so many interesting incidents viz girl fighting with her boyfriend for being late, fights between husband and wife over a call, boy making fun of his class mate for something happened in the college etc., If I don’t get to watch anything again back to messages in my mobile…every morning goes on like this…I am sure everyone of us will have a similar morning experience in a city…

A very busy schedule isn’t it!!?!! Ok let us get back to our business…Catch you with another interesting blog later!